Hi Anna! I read your column in the RedEye every week! I have never been one to go for online dating, I'm just not into it. However, my sister is on Tinder and matched with a guy she thought would be perfect for me. She asked if she could give him my number, and I said sure.
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So you met a great guy, he got your number, you were really excited about all the possibilities … and then you never heard from him. A lot of women make the mistake of blaming themselves. They wonder if they did something wrong, if they turned him off somehow, if they were too desperate or too cold or too aggressive and so on. A lot of the time a guy will get your number because he thinks maybe this is something he wants to pursue, but then for whatever reason, he changes his mind, or something comes up. It sounds like a dumb excuse, but people get busy. Life happens. Again, this will usually only happen with a guy who was lukewarm about you, to begin with.
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You might even bring this issue up to your female friends, asking their advice and trying to get some clarity into why this is so confusing and how to get to the bottom of it once and for all. First off all, let me just say… take a deep breathe and count to ten for a second. I promise you, everything is going to be OK. I am not saying this to be rude or make an assumption; I just know how truly overwhelming it can be when you are in this kind of a position, wanting someone to do something that means something to you only to be left hanging, kind of in this limbo of trying to get an understanding of what is going on and where to go from here. If this is the beginning stages where things are flirty, fun and not defined at all… maybe you just met, went on a great first date or so you thought and then of course since then even though he said he would call he has not once.
I really appreciate your advice and have listened to your CD over and over again. We have great communication, great attraction, share the same values, have fun together, etc. Anyway your help would be greatly appreciated :. Goodness gracious, Jill! Dear readers — kindly keep it under words, willya.